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		<title>Young Minds</title>
		<link>http://www.benblogs.com/2009/12/04/young-minds/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 18:24:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I have been asking my brother to start a blog since he is so crazy about Liverpool lately. Gosh I didn&#8217;t think it would so hard!
He just doesn&#8217;t want to do it. Whenever I ask him to create an account he just avoids it and talks about&#8230;yup Liverpool. Bastard.
Which makes me think. It must [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>So I have been asking my brother to start a blog since he is so crazy about Liverpool lately. Gosh I didn&#8217;t think it would so hard!</p>
<p>He just doesn&#8217;t want to do it. Whenever I ask him to create an account he just avoids it and talks about&#8230;yup Liverpool. Bastard.</p>
<p>Which makes me think. It must be tough being a parent. Here I am getting frustrated that my 18 year brother is giving me a hard time because of a simple registration. Saying shit like &#8220;Don&#8217;t force me if not I won&#8217;t do it.</p>
<p>I mean what the fuck right. Oh. Gave me the excuse that he&#8217;s lazy. Please.</p>
<p>He is really passionate about Liverpool so I really hope he takes this opportunity to create something.</p>
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		<title>Concentration</title>
		<link>http://www.benblogs.com/2009/10/30/concentration/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 01:06:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I feeling pissed. Angry that I find it so hard to concentrate on things I want to do.
I woke up early. 7am to start working but its 9am and I haven&#8217;t done anything.
ADD is really killing me.
And all this frustration and anger isn&#8217;t helping one bit.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>I feeling pissed. Angry that I find it so hard to concentrate on things I want to do.</p>
<p>I woke up early. 7am to start working but its 9am and I haven&#8217;t done anything.</p>
<p>ADD is really killing me.</p>
<p>And all this frustration and anger isn&#8217;t helping one bit.</p>
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		<title>You are useless</title>
		<link>http://www.benblogs.com/2009/10/27/you-are-useless/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 10:42:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was surprised when my dad called me and asked whether I wanted dinner. He rarely did that. I got me thinking, maybe there&#8217;s not much to hate about this man after all. Maybe if I just go to know him better. Who knows?
But sometimes things are just to good to be true.
As I was [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>I was surprised when my dad called me and asked whether I wanted dinner. He rarely did that. I got me thinking, maybe there&#8217;s not much to hate about this man after all. Maybe if I just go to know him better. Who knows?</p>
<p>But sometimes things are just to good to be true.</p>
<p>As I was just finishing up the mixed rice he bought me he shot me a question.</p>
<p>&#8220;Do you want to spend the rest of your life like this. You are useless you know that&#8221;</p>
<p>So are you, I said in my mind.</p>
<p>I have been staying at home a lot lately, working. But he thinks I&#8217;m spending all this time in front of the computer rotting away.</p>
<p>I remember a time when I went out a lot and he asked why I didn&#8217;t I come back enough. Now that I&#8217;m at home, Im staying in too much? Sometimes I don&#8217;t know whats goes on in his sick twisted mind.</p>
<p>It still surprises me how I keep all this anger and frustration inside. With my dad, its always the case of why bother.</p>
<p>I wish he didn&#8217;t have to stay with me. I can&#8217;t stand seeing him live his lonely pitiful life.</p>
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		<title>2 Years</title>
		<link>http://www.benblogs.com/2009/10/27/2-years/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 06:59:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s hard to believe that the last post I made in this blog was about 2 years ago. Time certainly flies. While I still do internet marketing I decided to use this blog as a personal blog from now on.
Why? You ask?
I don&#8217;t know. Don&#8217;t care. Just for fun.
I just hope my next post won&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>It&#8217;s hard to believe that the last post I made in this blog was about 2 years ago. Time certainly flies. While I still do internet marketing I decided to use this blog as a personal blog from now on.</p>
<p>Why? You ask?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know. Don&#8217;t care. Just for fun.</p>
<p>I just hope my next post won&#8217;t be in 2011.</p>
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		<title>Weekend Trip</title>
		<link>http://www.benblogs.com/2007/08/24/weekend-trip/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2007 20:45:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Off to Langkawi for the weekend. Hope this break will do some good to my focus and concentration.
Or maybe come up with some million dollar idea that can make me rich.
But I know it will be just beach, seafood, alcohol and alcohol.
Haha!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Off to Langkawi for the weekend. Hope this break will do some good to my focus and concentration.</p>
<p>Or maybe come up with some million dollar idea that can make me rich.</p>
<p>But I know it will be just beach, seafood, alcohol and alcohol.</p>
<p>Haha!</p>
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		<title>How to party like a god damn Rockstar.</title>
		<link>http://www.benblogs.com/2007/08/17/how-to-party-like-a-god-damn-rockstar/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2007 05:55:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The first thing that comes to my mind of a rock star lifestyle is obviously the sex, booze, drugs, wealth and the care-free mindset. A running joke that me and my friends always say to motivate ourselves in Internet Marketing is;
Friend A: I think Internet Marketing blows. See you guys, I am going back to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>The first thing that comes to my mind of a rock star lifestyle is obviously the sex, booze, drugs, wealth and the care-free mindset. A running joke that me and my friends always say to motivate ourselves in Internet Marketing is;</p>
<p>Friend A: <font color="#339966">I think Internet Marketing blows. See you guys, I am going back to a 9-5 job, stable but boring life, work my way up the corporate ladder, suck up to my boss, settle down, get married, grow old.</font></p>
<p>Friend B: Ok, <font color="#ff0000">I still prefer Internet Marketing. Fast cars, hot chicks, pills, and flashy blings. Bye</font></p>
<p>For some reason, success in Internet Marketing is closely associated to the lifestyle of a rock star. I don&#8217;t really know why but I guess it&#8217;s because of the potential earning&#8217;s someone could gain from Internet Marketing.</p>
<p>Yes. I must admit. I want my rock star lifestyle. NOW. It wouldn&#8217;t do any good if I get rich at 50 with my saggy ass.</p>
<p>Anyway. I just got news of a new product in the market. It is called <a href="http://www.benblogs.com/recommends/Rockstar">Affiliate RockStar Status</a>. And because I want to achieve my rock star lifestyle, I bought it.</p>
<p>Before I talk about the money making contents of the ebook, there is a section I which I found extremely amusing.</p>
<p>Towards the end there is a bonus chapter where Eric (the author) talks about how he lives his rock star life. Things he and his &quot;rock star&quot; buddies do as they have already achieved financial freedom.</p>
<p>Standard things like fly business class, book the best hotels, live in luxury apartments. He mentions that if you want to look a million dollars you should always hire a fashion consultant and what are the benefits to looking your best.</p>
<p>Instead of driving in a nice flashy sports car, what his crew does is to hire a female chauffeur to drive them around in some top range SUV and hit the local scenes with a bang.</p>
<p>He also recommends 8 luxury items to own once you are making fast cash with <a href="http://www.benblogs.com/recommends/Rockstar">Affiliate Rockstar Status</a>.</p>
<p>1. High Tech Gadget : PI Elite Slim Cam ( lol I dont know why but he did give some reasons.)</p>
<p>2. Vacation Location:&nbsp; Apparently Miami, South Beach is the best place to go for a vacation. He even recommended a couple of beach hotels to stay.</p>
<p>3. The ride: If you like to party like a rock star then go for a Range Rover HSE or a stretch Hummer. Or if you are a sports car type (like me) go for a Mazda RX-8.</p>
<p>4. High end Watch: He says that every tom dick and harry wants a rolex when they are rich. Why not get a equally classy, Movado sports watch. (Never heard of it. I guess ill stick with Rolex then)</p>
<p>5. Restaurants: The best places to dine are in New York. (Haha. Again, I have never been there so I&#8217;ll stick with my Malaysian food)</p>
<p>6. Wines: Buy French Merlot</p>
<p>7. Cigars: If you are a smoker, smoke them as cigars greatly display your new found wealth. If not, too bad.</p>
<p>8. Favorite past time: Attend live concerts V.I.P style.</p>
<p>The whole ebook states a very valid system to make money online. In fact I believe that if I follow everything step by step I generally would be able to live my rock star life. I learnt some new tips and some new methods which I have never heard of before. But before buying the book I was prepared for some rehashed fluff just like all the other make money online ebooks out there.</p>
<p>But I wanted to take action, so I bought it. I wanted the price to remind myself why I started Internet Marketing in the first place. I wanted to be reminded of what my goals are, which is to achieve financial freedom.</p>
<p>There are plenty of reviews regarding this product out there but from the bottom of my heart, the <a href="http://www.benblogs.com/recommends/Rockstar">Affiliate Rockstar Status</a> is a great way to start if you plan earn money online.</p>
<p>If you wish to continue your life like <font color="#339966">Friend A</font> above, then I wish you all the best.</p>
<p>But if you finally come to your senses and wish to be like <font color="#ff0000">Friend B</font>, then start acting!</p>
<p>Click <a href="http://www.benblogs.com/recommends/Rockstar">HERE</a> to achieve your Rockstar Status today!</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>A lesson learnt at a gas station</title>
		<link>http://www.benblogs.com/2007/08/16/a-lesson-learnt-at-a-gas-station/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2007 08:42:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One fine morning my tank was low so I pulled up to the nearest gas station. The moment I parked my car, this friendly guy came over and signaled me to pop the hood. I figured, well my car probably needs some battery water or maybe some black oil.
As I was refueling my car he [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>One fine morning my tank was low so I pulled up to the nearest gas station. The moment I parked my car, this friendly guy came over and signaled me to pop the hood. I figured, well my car probably needs some battery water or maybe some black oil.</p>
<p>As I was refueling my car he turned and said to me.</p>
<p>&quot;Hmm seems like your radiator needs some proper fluid (as he emptied the radiator of its previous contents). Look how dirty it has became. You cant run a car like that.&quot;</p>
<p><font color="#339966">I was like uh&#8230; ok sure change it then. </font></p>
<p>&quot;Great! How many do you wish to purchase?</p>
<p><font color="#339966">Just one thank you. </font></p>
<p>&quot;OH no no no, you need at least 7 to fill it up. At best 4 mix with water&quot;</p>
<p><font color="#339966">What! Fine how much is one then.</font></p>
<p>&quot;15bucks per bottle. (while running over to get a whole box of it) You see its good quality, imported from UK&quot;</p>
<p>At that point I was thinking to myself. What have I got myself into. Not only did I allow him to empty my radiator fluid, now have to buy new ones. ARGH. So that is what I did. I bought 5 which totaled up to RM75. The whole time driving to work after that I tried to convince myself that the new fluid was really worth it. I was complementing the smooth acceleration, more power in the engine and other stuffs.</p>
<p>What it ever it was. I had absolutely no idea what radiator fluid does and when should I change it or even whether it cost RM15 per bottle. All i know is that I was RM75 poorer when I left the gas station and I had to live with it.</p>
<p>I learnt an important lesson that day. If that guy had a booth on the side selling bottles for 50c I wouldnt have even bothered about it. What made the sale was the fact that he came over to &quot;pre-sell&quot; me. Goes to show that if you really want to sell something to someone, you have to make that extra effort. Plus if a person comes to a shop/website without an intention buy anything, at the end of the day with enough convincing, a sale can be made.</p>
<p>Also, Im never going to let anyone pop my hood in the gas station again :/</p>
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		<title>How I got 300 Backlinks in Yahoo in 3 days</title>
		<link>http://www.benblogs.com/2007/07/24/how-i-got-300-backlinks-in-yahoo-in-3-days/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jul 2007 10:15:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes I must admit that the title is a bit link baity but pardon my cheesiness. I genuinely want to account my details on the simple steps I took to achieve those backlinks in Yahoo. This is afterall, a blog-for-me-to-take-note-of-things   Ok never mind.
Firstly this is done for another site (part of my work [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Yes I must admit that the title is a bit link baity but pardon my cheesiness. I genuinely want to account my details on the simple steps I took to achieve those backlinks in Yahoo. This is afterall, a blog-for-me-to-take-note-of-things <img src='http://www.benblogs.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Ok never mind.</p>
<p>Firstly this is done for another site (part of my work <img src='http://www.benblogs.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> ) and I haven&#8217;t had the time to do it for this blog yet. So don&#8217;t go checking my blog and claiming me a liar! (Of course you wont check my blog, I am not that famous)</p>
<p>Anyway the method is pretty simple, easy,and fun!. To me at least.</p>
<p>What I basically did was just go to blogs and post comments with my link there! Sounds like spam I know but rest assured I really did read a couple of post before doing any commenting. You might be surprised at the wealth of information you can get!</p>
<p>So you not going build links but you get to learn things too. What a steal i must say.</p>
<p>The most important factor in commenting though is that the blog owner must have the &quot;nofollow&quot; links disabled. A &quot;nofollow&quot; link will not register with the search engines as the robots and spiders will stop at that link and literally, not follow it.</p>
<p>I mange to find a great resource for blogs that have the &quot;nofollow&quot; link disabled.</p>
<p><a href="http://courtneytuttle.com/blogs-that-follow/">http://courtneytuttle.com/blogs-that-follow/</a></p>
<p>Have fun commenting and please don&#8217;t spam them! Everyone loves a couple of comments everynow and then. Even ME! <img src='http://www.benblogs.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>eSpime</title>
		<link>http://www.benblogs.com/2007/07/19/espime/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jul 2007 10:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So you guys must be wondering what eSpime is lol. I have been meaning to make a post about it. Anyway eSpime Ltd is the company I am currently working in. It is an internet marketing company and I must say I feel very, very thankful to have found this job!
Because Internet Marketing companies are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>So you guys must be wondering what eSpime is lol. I have been meaning to make a post about it. Anyway eSpime Ltd is the company I am currently working in. It is an internet marketing company and I must say I feel very, very thankful to have found this job!</p>
<p>Because Internet Marketing companies are rare in Malaysia I never would have imagined me working in one! I quit my previous job in a web hosting company 2 months ago and I found eSpime through Jobstreet.</p>
<p>The main company is in Finland and there is also a branch here in Malaysia. Basically it is internet marketing in a bigger scale here. I am currently in charge of the SEO for the company website so wish me luck lol. Hopefully I can do a good job cause things are looking pretty good and I wouldnt know what to do if I got kicked outta here.</p>
<p>They do all sorts of things to help clients boost their web presence online so if&nbsp; you got some time feel free to check out <a href="http://www.espime.com.my">www.espime.com.my</a></p>
<p> <img src='http://www.benblogs.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Clickbank Malaysia Update</title>
		<link>http://www.benblogs.com/2007/07/17/clickbank-malaysia-update/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jul 2007 09:26:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great, I woke up this morning and got this email from Clickbank
Hello,
Thank you for your interest in Clickbank.&#160; After review of your account our Security Chief has determined that we are unable to accept this account.&#160; We are given no details to the decline.
I apologize for any inconvenience.
Best of Luck
Someone take a gun and please [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Great, I woke up this morning and got this email from Clickbank</p>
<p><font color="#3366ff">Hello,</p>
<p>Thank you for your interest in Clickbank.&nbsp; After review of your account our Security Chief has determined that we are unable to accept this account.&nbsp; We are given no details to the decline.</p>
<p>I apologize for any inconvenience.</p>
<p>Best of Luck</font></p>
<p><font color="#000000">Someone take a gun and please shoot me in the face. </font></p>
<p><font color="#000000">And oh, Hello Paydotcom.<br />
</font></p>
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